RJ - I was having a coffee yesterday after a meeting, with a colleague, whose h had a MLC about 12 years ago [She moved on, and is with someone else, and he got therapy, and told me that leaving his wife was the stupidest thing he had ever done, but that is by the way] She said that he didn't remember ANY of the awful things he had said and done, and she found that frightening, and didn't know whether to believe him,, even now. I told her that this, sadly, appears 'normal' for MLC.
Curously, my dealing with it now, is helping her to understand some of what happened to her all those years ago. And I think she is better of with her 'new' man. Hmmmmmm
