Ya see...I don't get my h. He doesn't seem to be like the typical MLCer because he wants to be in my life, he wants us to be best friends, he wants to have another baby with me.
Yet...
He wants to go out and do things on his own, by himself and for himself, to prove to himself that he can do it on his own and he doesn't need me mothering him for him to do it.
So now that I am 'trying' (not terribly successfully) to etch out some space of my own he goes mega cold and lecturing on me.