I shared the response I drafted with my IC yesterday and he thinks I am spot on with it and he is very pleased with the tone and content. He suggested that I add a sentence asking W to share my response with her IC (she meets with him later in the week - so she will have a couple of days to think over my comments) and that I offer to meet with her IC if he so chooses - which I did.
I sent an e-mail to W's work to let her know my reply will be sent to our primary account so she can look at it by webmail if she chooses. And I am ready for any response that W may throw my way.
My IC can't meet with me until after Thanksgiving but he wants me to contact him sooner if the situation warrants - and I suspect I will need to take him up on that offer...
Me 52, STBEX 52 D 17, S 12 M 20 years Em Sep since 2002, Phys Sep Sept 2009
He suggested that I add a sentence asking W to share my response with her IC (she meets with him later in the week - so she will have a couple of days to think over my comments) and that I offer to meet with her IC if he so chooses - which I did. 
