I think your H is being very childish about keeping where he lives a secret. You are trying to set boundaries and he gets upset. Why can't he see that boundaries would give him 'protection' as well? He needs to grow up.

saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength