I'm sure you've tried a thousand times talking to him about it, but my only other thought was to start "doing" to him what you would like him to be "doing" to you and maybe he'll figure it out? Or he'll realize he likes it too and start wanting to be intimate in that way w/ you? Or have you already tried that too?

And, just my 2 cents' worth, I think we're all "high maintenance" in our own way; just depends on how we act or react to "get our way."

Last edited by RedHeadWife; 10/30/07 10:15 AM.
Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10