One day at a time, #3

[SweetRedd]

Congrats Luv! That is awesome news Don't forget that slow and steady wins the race.

[Yoyowife]

Luv,
That's great news. Be loving without being overbearing. Don't ask questions right now, let him open up to you when he's ready.

[LL44]

Yoyo is smart!

That is fantastic, Luv. I am so thrilled!

[LuvMyHusband]

Hey everybody,
This is the first chance I've had to post since this a.m. It's been a hard but good day. My H called the OW and told her that he would not be talking to her anymore and that he was working things out with me. He has told me alot. He hasn't had a p/a with her, well, not in the physical sense but there has been emotional, internet and phone stuff. I am really hurt and told him so but also thanked him for being honest with me. The OW got nasty and sent me a pic that she had of him on her phone and then emailed me some not nice stuff. That really made H mad and he canceled his screen name and is changing our cell phone numbers tomorrow. He really wants us to move forward. Now the trial for me will be putting it behind me and not allowing it to come between us.

I really need some suggestions to help with this. I do not want the memories to ruin our chances now. Thanks everyone.

[nephartiti]

Luv, I'm so happy for you. As long as both of you are committed, you will find solutions.

[nephartiti]

Wish I could give advice on the memory stuff, but I really am at a loss there. My mind is always my worst enemy.

[LuvMyHusband]

Hi everyone,
So far so good. It doesn't seem real though that he's back. Now I have to wrestle with the memories and the stuff he has disclosed to me. It's going to be hard but I don't want this to come between us now. Everything needs to be put behind us so that we can move forward. I know he's sorry but it is still going to be hard. I'm not going to be checking on him but it's hard to believe that he has cut her off so cold turkey.

[Michael Mc C]

The only thing that I have been able to use to get past my W's EA, and the horrible things I've read in their discussions, is my love for her and the honest belief that she is lost. Unfortunately she is no where near thinking that we could ever work at fixing our M. The important thing here, I guess, is that I do and believing she is lost/confused has helped.

[saffie]

Luv my H cut off and went cold turkey - it can be done - and he had a PA for 18 months.

saffie

[Dr LOve]

Hey Luv,

Trick or treat

Husband