Since I have detached even more from H these last 2 weeks, I honestly find it easier to be nice to him. I hope that makes sense. I suppose I feel in my heart I have nothing to lose or gain by being nice, and I treat him like I would a really nice customer service person at Sam's. I don't feel 'snarky' or want to lash out, because why would I lash out at the customer service person at Sam's? They haven't done anything to me, they have their own mess.
I hope you can find some peace tomorrow and I know you can definately tackle anything coming your way.
I don't think H will file OR even broach a mediation discussion with you anytime soon.
