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LOL That will show him!!

Yeah that is how my husband is with the body language. But with him I swear I could keep talking and talking and he would just sit there. Or then there's the eye roll.

That's what I am having a hard time with. I know we can never overcome this without talking about it. Communication is the key to any marriage.

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Yeah that is how my husband is with the body language. But with him I swear I could keep talking and talking and he would just sit there. Or then there's the eye roll.

That's what I am having a hard time with. I know we can never overcome this without talking about it. Communication is the key to any marriage


I totally understand!! Has Sara mentioned Retro to you guys? Any chance of getting Mr. trying there?

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What is retro? Is that for a certain religion?

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I think its religion based, but by no means do you have to (I think!?) Catholic to go.

http://www.retrouvaille.org/

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trying, Sara and her H were basically driving to the attorney's office for a divorce, found this weekend and they survived, doing even better than before.

My coworker has found the same success.

Seek Sara out for more questions.

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Wow it sounds like something to check into. Thanks for the tip.

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I know I posted on Sue's thread about the break through with my husband. I had the relationship talk and felt we had a huge break through! I haven't updated on my post because I thought maybe I would jinx as it is so early.

However I was brutal and put my foot down that I won't be a door mat. He appologized and said he was wrong for going to the dating site. He was wrong for writing this girl very sexual letters. He was wrong for trying to set up a date. He told me he never would have went. It was just making him feel this high. However I know I have said I have suspicion that maybe he is cheating. Found someone at work or could be elsewhere. Just this horrible gut feeling. Well, that gut eeling emerged again today when he got his check and there is 8 hours missing of overtime he said he worked. I haven't said a word about it but plan to. The last couple pay days it seemed like there should have been more hours but he excused them away by saying there was a vacation day in there that I took for this remember which he did. Then said with the holiday pay. It was confusing the way he was explaining it. So I gave him the benefit of the doubt. But this time it is very apparent no excuses out of it! I am dreading to hear where he was for 8 hours.

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One other thing to mention his 8 hours of missing OT would be through really inappropriate hours. Like where was he through the night during 3 shift??!

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He claims he is going to clear up the OT. We shall see. He swear he isn't seeing anyone else.

After a spouse has hurt you so bad how do you ever get the trust back? I doubt everything he does.

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After a spouse has hurt you so bad how do you ever get the trust back? I doubt everything he does.


I wish I knew. Oh I wish I knew. Not that we are anywhere close to where you guys are, but still. I fear I'll never trust him again.

Sounds like a great talk. I wonder though, I think he is in 'confessing' mode, so maybe its really a paycheck mess up? I will wait with you to see...

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