Mark I know you have heard this before on your thread. But maybe it would be a good time to find chocolateyes thread and reread how he handled things. I still am amazed at how his self centered, mean wife turned herself around. He acted very loving but yet brutal if that makes sense. He exposed her to all. Kind of killed that little fantasy world she had going where everyone was in the dark. He did things differently then on this forum and it worked.
