Anyway, I remember my H coming up to me somewhere around the new year of 2006 and saying that he wouldn't be bothering me for sex anymore. I was like "what are you talking about".
He said "my guy isn't working, I don't know what is wrong with him".
I was like "Um, you are only 30 years old, if you are having ED problems I think you should go to the doctor".
He said he was too embarrassed to go.
We did have sex a couple of times after he said that and I remember thinking he just wasn't really into it. No emotional connection.
The last time we had sex he couldn't orgasm. I remember taking it so personally. I started to cry and I was leaving the room. H pulled me back into his arms and said "it's not you. I love you so much. I just don't know what's going on with me".
I wonder if his ED problems were from depression or because he was having sex with the ow then. Maybe both.
