My W just informed me that she has made an appt. for the mediator for next Tuesday. I don't know if I should go since I have told her days ago that I am not emotionally ready to make such important decisions. Then I thought that going would give me the chance to see where I stand at the end of this. Any thought on going or just holding back until later??

Sandi2,

I don't know how we can reach each other. I could so use more insight from you.


Me: 41
W: 40
D5, S4
Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007
Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007