I am so so so sorry. Welcome to my angry world. I know how out of control you must feel. If you're still feeling it, get the energy out somehow. Have someone take the kids and run around the block. Exhaust yourself. You need to be careful what you leave on v-mail and e-mail. You are preparing for court. Your H has made it clear he doesn't want the kids, but still. Protect your image.
Btw, too bad H's teary call hadn't gone to v-mail. You could have forwarded that to OW too. Now I'm not helping. Oh, I envy you. There are so many times I want to call OW and say the same stuff.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9