Thanks all - H did not "technically" have an A...more like a crush or infatuation. From what he has told me (which could def be a watered down version) there was never talk of them "hooking up" and he says he never talked about our M to her (which would have been a connection point for them)...I dunno.

But it was serious enough to send him into a major weight loss, name change and M separation/talk of divorce. Oh and we did file D papers (I filed but only bc he wanted to at the time).

Just FYI, not sure if that changes anything or not!


Me: 32, H: 32
Together: 11, M: 8, Kids: 0
Separated: 6/15/07
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