Sex and the WAS/MLCer

[Lissie]

. My husband was over oneday long ago...we were having a rather good conversation. Just so happens that Lissett called or I called her or she was on the phone heck...I don't remember that part, the part I DO REMEMBER is handing him the phone and letting him speak to Lissett.

I heard him telling her of HIS SEXUAL problems...or rather he said they were mine. Something about I watched the clock to see how long it would take him to achieve an orgasm. So he felt he was under scrutiny to perform. Now most women would want it to take awhile.....so I am only going to assume it was something he was dealing with emotionally. I mean...he actually told a stranger on the phone this.
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(sigh)

it scared the bejabbers out of me is fo sho.

I was like WHA?

what do I say now?

I have to say, he was very ready to just talk, talk talk.

I felt bad for him, and Jeanette took a pic of him that day, (I think) and he looked hunched over and so sad.

I just validated and listened (sigh)

we have to DB each other spouses too