H has left have I Done the right thing

[Evie]

I'm in both, good to talk to you, seems ages, I knew you wouldn't be on the boards over the w/e, thanks for your advice.

Why is H been so nice? He has never txtd/emailed me so much as of late..I know the contact is mainly to speak to the boys, but he is so much more considerate and doing more for the family, especially the boys. He's more like his old self.

I'm really worried that how we are right now will fade in time. I keep hearing the words he said...'I don't love you as a husband should love his wife'

I don't have any goals right now, I know I need to sit down and work something out...but where too start?, what is achievable?, what do I want? I know it's too soon for dates, I don't want R talks, I just want some connection, I would love some itimacy, however small, but I don't think that will ever happen.

H talked about having one of the computers because he said in time he will need one, to me that meant future planning, in the long term he's not planning on coming home.

I'm just stuck in this place of not making any progress and not sure either how to move forward.

What did you do Cat? How long was it before your H moved back?

speak soon

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