Hi, new here and my H is in MLC at 32.

[Dom R]

Hi.
i scanned through your story that you linked. thanks.

it does not sound like this is neccessarily"mlc" to me.
(if so, be very glad)

it sounds like "standard affair". Which was in some ways triggered by your problems prior.


According to some standards on this, your husband is going through a "withdrawal" phase. he's been on a "high" of being in this affair, and now he's crashing. he will have no joy for a few months, life is so dreary, yada yada yada.

Just hang in there. withdrawal state allegedly lasts for 3-6 months.
Dont push him for commitment right now.

You might want to read/post more on the infidelity topic. dunno.