So W calls... I get so frustrated with her.. she still expects me to pay for everything... doesn't listen to me.. and I mean doesn't hear what I'm saying. I say the sky is blue and she says "What color is the sky"
Anyway.. she gets mad because I'm taking the D's to a couple of places.. she launches into how I'm trying to outdo her. I'm so sick of that.. I told her she needs to stop getting her nails done every week. Then she goes into this "I want to be friends with you and maybe work things out"
I blew up... she doesn't want to be friends.. or.. she wants me to be her friend when she wants it.
I told her I've lost respect for and I'm not sure I want to work things out. She fired back with "What about what you've done to me"
I'm so sick of hearing about that too... she instantly launches that excuse every single time. We basically hung up on each other.
Then she sends me a text "I'm a good person and I won't let you put me down.. you used to say I meant something.. you are still to me!! Have a good night"
Whatever.. so full of crap
I responded:
"And you are... I just don't agree with what you are doing and I don't like the way you have been treating me. You keep using what I did to you as an excuse... Are you ever going to take responsibility for your part? It wasn't all me. I know I hurt you and I know I've had screw ups. You won't admit your part and you've given us no chance to work on things. What do you expect me to do. I bet you still haven't gotten counseling. I'm done. Get your lawyer to do what they need. We need the separation agreement then we can do the divorce."
