Amy: i'm sorry for your pain. you're in a horrible place.
i know you dont want to suffer any more. I think the "knows what he wants" thing is reasonable. I dont think it is reasonable to demand that he is "100% better" first, though. He may never be "100% better", for one thing. Also, how would you even judge that?
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
