Hey IC, I am glad you and Miss IC are going to stick around awhile. I've taken some absences from the board and when I come back, I always learn something new. It's really amazing. I find that the breaks are necessary let everything sink in, or just be a ferret for awhile, but then I'm ready to do this work again. The attachment we all have to this board is...interesting. I mean, I still post here although my issue no longer about SSM. You have Corri who's divorced, MJ who is on her way to divorce, Lil who isn't married...I mean, why are we here? Yet we keep coming back, knowing that this special little group will take the time and effort to help one another get unstuck and move forward.
Anyway, glad the surgery is over, and go rest so we can torture you some more!