Update: Ok, now that the initial shock has subsided. What to do if anything all. I spoke her a few days ago and asked that she not lie to me. I stated that if she wanted this to be civil, I at least deserve to be told the truth. She agreed and stated that she "fibbed" to avoid hurting my feelings (now she cares about my feelings, whatever). I stated that I was not comfortable with filing until I could retrieve all of my belongings and that I couldnt this weekend b/c I was going out of town. However, she was adamant about going ahead and filing that day. I stated that I could not stop her if that is what she wanted to do. She stated that she would not damage my things and that I could keep them there as long as I needed to. I tild her that she could keep her things at my grandfathers as long as she needed to as well. She asked where I was going that weekend and I responded that it was none of her business. She then replied that she wouldn't tell me what she was up to when I ask her in that case. I said fine and told her where I was going. I wished her well on her new job that was to start Monday. She thanked me and said that it meant alot coming from me. She also stated that she still wanted me in her life as a friend and that I could come by and get my things whenever I wanted or just stop by for a visit. She sent me an email today advisng that I needed to co to the cell phone place and set up an account b/c she had my # removed (she had told me about this previously) as her work was going to pay her bill. She stated that she hoped that I had fun this weekend. I replied in a friendly way. That was it.
Now the question, what do I do now? Leave her alone? Send a friendly email every now and then? Write her off as a closed chapter in my life? That visit comment perplexes me but perhaps she is just feeling guilt. Who knows? Comments and or advice are always appreciated.
