Thanks Jack! Helps to have a little pat on the back. I need all the encouragement I can get. I am really struggling b/c I am worried about him/his mental & emotional health....but I am also worried about my own & my poor heart is breaking. I truly do love this man, messed up as he is. Not sure how LONG I can really hang on, ya know?? I'm 32 (almost 33) and wanted us to start a family....so did he before his MLC hit....now I don't know WHAT to do. May end up divorced & have to find someone else.
...and I almost forgot the latest additions to his list:
• I don't know who I am • I need to find myself • I'm not ready to be your H, I think I'd need a year on my own to figure out who I am. Then it's possible when I "am" ready, you will have moved on and met someone else. But ultimately I want us both to be happy, so if that means losing you and my possibly ending up alone, then maybe that is just what is meant to be.
The "I'm not ready for you, it's just timing" thing blows my mind - we've BEEN married 8 years!!!! How are you not ready???? AAARGGGH. These statements are just such nonsense. It really is as if he's been abducted by aliens.
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Me: 32, H: 32 Together: 11, M: 8, Kids: 0 Separated: 6/15/07 My Story
