Yeah - I meant how one views it is personal, and differs from one person to another. I don't think it is a male / female difference in views. My H is very like you and me in that there is more to it. Neither of us try to ML, and never have, unless we have made up first if we have had a difference of opinions!!! I don't know if it's an age thing either. I just think it is part of one's core or inner being - one's comfort zone.
It's a problem if both parties to the M don't feel the same way about it!!! saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
