Hi Saffie, sure I think sex is personal. It is about as personal as a person could get.....I would think. But to me, it involves a lot of your soul and heart....not just the body....at least if you are making love. That is why it is hard for me to do that when there are hard feelings that have not been resolved. I guess that is why they say some men need sex in order to make up and some women need to make up in order to have sex. Interesting, isn't it?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!