To me that's an issue of trust. Different type of trust compare to fidelity but trust no less. i.e. my W doesn't believe that I love her for all of her now and really thinks she looks amazing. It gets pretty frustrating. But it comes down to whether one trusts the other person as genuine and honest about their intentions when for a long time they've done perhaps the opposite.... I guess the trust is build with consistent action over time.... As you said, he's been consistent for over a year now. So that's pointing to a more permanent behavior change rather than short term adjustment.... I just wish my W is more self aware as you are about how you are feeling and recognize that it's not him doing bad things but it's you sometimes that's pulling away.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
