I told her I doubt we will have money for this after a D.
I understand what you are saying and I did the same thing. I believe my W just understood this to be manipulation (trying to make her feel guilty). I stopped talking about D and W never brings it up anymore. If I had kept on reminding her about it, I'm sure we'd have finished already.
Me 44 W 39 M 10yrs (together 13 years) one D 8 ILYBINILWY Feb 2007 Separated - 5th September 07
Will get there in the end. Will get there in the end 2.
