Do you not think it is a personal thing? For me it is about ML and I think for mt H it is to. We have never been able to 'make up' by ML it has been that we have had to resolve any issues BEFORE we ML. That was why when he had an A it was especially bad and a massive betrayal. He says now he thought he was in love with OW but he knows that he wasn't.

saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength