Yes, I am very angry that she chose to discuss our personal life and M with a total stranger. Our 15 years together is thrown aside for some "fantasy" that may or may not last. I realize that my sitch is like many others but I never got the chance to fight for my M and feel totally helpless.

I have been told again and again to "work on myself" but my W and children meant the world to me and now I am alone and expected to sign papers to give her what she wants.

I am doing IC, coaching and everything else I can to deal with this. All she says is that she thought about it and cried over it but this is what she must do. I also really like the statement that our children "will adjust".


Me: 41
W: 40
D5, S4
Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007
Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007