[/quote] My MIL told me that I had held a grudge for him on his first A and didn't allow us to get better. Who knows!!! My FIL has cheated on her all their married life and she stayed and turned in to a cold woman. She is not a Happy person either. It must run in their family. [quote]
Penny that is where your H is getting all of his issues from i feel.
Sorry about where you are at this point. All you can do now is take for you and your boys and let H go thru this by himself.
It certainly sounds like MLC and maybe when he doesn't have you to fall back on and take care of things he'll see that he was screwed up. Right now it is time for you to live for you.
Matilda is right get a lawyer. Let them go thru and figure things out.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
