I do not think that is a fair statement to make. Did she quit or did she get tired of trying? Have you always been trying or just recently started when you seen things in the M were bad? Is she the only one responsible for where things are today? Did you give up (quit)on the M years ago and now are trying again? I ask you these things, because they are thoughts we have or at least I have? It is easy for the LBS to say that the WAS is giving up when they walk away or have an A. We are just as responsible for where the M is today as they are. Can we truly blame them for not wanting to try? Just because we finally lite a fire under our own asses and want to try. We all came here in the beginning out of desperation to save our marriages. Not, because we were just sitting around one day and said to ourselves "Hey, I wonder what I can do to show my S that I love them more. How can I show them that I appreciate them and want them to be happy." I wish that we had came here to better our already decent marriage, instead of looking for a life preserver to rescue our already sinking marriages. But, know that we are here. It is beyond time to point fingers and place blame. It is time to react and to make changes in our lives and adapt to what is happening the best we can.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
