where are the posters? Why don't they post here often?
Good question, my guess is that once you achieve reconcilliation your efforts are translated from this forum to bettering your marriage. Just a thought.
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Our marriage was salvageable...neglected, but it could have been saved.
So true in my case as well, despite all I know. I believe the WAS's will have regret.
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I may be wrong for wishing this, but I hope he ends up with a woman with horrible kids and a wicked ex-husband.
Ha! I think we all have these thoughts, I know I do, however, I try to take the high road and wish her the best.
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM