thanks for the reply. still wondering what got you to START on that road of asking external people for help. I guess that would be, why you decided to go see that first doctor.

was that before or after trying to commit suicide?

BTW: my wife is "not happy", according to her. but I dont think anywhere near unhappy to overcome her barrier on asking for help.
I see her as on a plateau, where she could just continue like this for years. sigh.

Last edited by Dom R; 10/29/07 05:10 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle