What you have said is exactly what I am talking about. I don't dare show any emotion or I run the risk of pushing her away. That is what I mean by SHE controls the situation. She wants out and makes no effort to seek MC, IC or anything since OM is now her "kight in shining armor" that will bring her eternal happiness.
The LBS is left holding the bag and has to walk on eggshells so we don't come across as mean, indifferent, uncaring, cold, or trying to manipulate or control.
THE WAS GETS TO CONTROL THE LIVES OF THE WHOLE FAMILY!!!
Me: 41 W: 40 D5, S4 Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007 Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007
