I think that will happen in my life too. There will be some of his brothers and sisters that won't like it but will put up with it and others might not. The OW brothers and her mom don't like it and disagree with it but are putting up with it. I have one SIL ( who is H sister) we have been really close. I don't think she will ever allow her in her House. My H told me yesterday that he would never marry her and would probably never get married again. He said he wasn't made out to be married and that if he couldn't live with me he couldn't live with anyone. He came and went over the books again yesterday all day. He was here Saturday to for a while. We had some serious conversations we cried and talked and remained civil. Its just a tough old road and who would have ever thought this would happen. We were the last ones that anyone thought would get a divorce. You just never know. He told me that he couldn't work through all the stuff and just needed a clean start. That I needed to take the settlement and become a business person and turn it into more. Thats his big deal now is moving a head and making more money and becoming stronger business wise and that I need to step up to the plate more. Not that I am running our business and working too. Its amazing that they don't see the whole picture and just what they want. Maybe I don't either. My MIL told me that I had held a grudge for him on his first A and didn't allow us to get better. Who knows!!! My FIL has cheated on her all their married life and she stayed and turned in to a cold woman. She is not a Happy person either. It must run in their family.
You just stay and vent here all you want....It is nice to vent to you. Hope you have a good day.
