yea, it never fails, a busy body wanting to know more. "we are separated for the time being " should suffice everyone, but when you find yourself accosted with nosey questions ("but why?" "oh no, what happened?" etc) you can say "we are going through some issues, but enough about me, how are you doing (or insert a question about the latest football/basketball game).
At work, only 3 people knew, one was a very good friend who helped me lots, I had to tell the HR because I had to change something on my payroll or such, and my supervisor since I had to go to C during the day sometimes, I didn't give him any details, other than I was separated and would be asking a few hrs off here and there for C, and that was enough.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
