there you are! I was looking for you on the other forum.
You seem to be doing good and I'm very glad for this. I agree with your last statement, do keep him involved if you are doing things with the kids, just bring it up casually without looking like it'd break your heart if he says no. Learn to not ask "why?" if he can't come, give him space that way. I know my H would come most time whenever I invited him to things I'd do with the kids.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.