Hi very Sad , you have indeed come to the right place...our heavy hitters will all chime in soon. They are a wonderful source of info...and encouragement.

yes your H is an alien! Look at his eyes there will be an erie emptiness that is downright scary.

My H said the exact same thing yours did...ILYBINILWY.....classic MLC speech...their No # 1 choice...learned on the mothership. My had an affair with a piece of pondscum 1/2 his age and filed for D ..we went to court once....3 weeks after that he asked to come home this was about 18 months in duration...but had started several years before so total MLC was 4-5 years with a 18 month replay...raging affair for a year.

many MLC's take longer...its a tought ride . we are there to support you with love, info an an occasional 2 x 4.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest