Hi very Sad , you have indeed come to the right place...our heavy hitters will all chime in soon. They are a wonderful source of info...and encouragement.
yes your H is an alien! Look at his eyes there will be an erie emptiness that is downright scary.
My H said the exact same thing yours did...ILYBINILWY.....classic MLC speech...their No # 1 choice...learned on the mothership. My had an affair with a piece of pondscum 1/2 his age and filed for D ..we went to court once....3 weeks after that he asked to come home this was about 18 months in duration...but had started several years before so total MLC was 4-5 years with a 18 month replay...raging affair for a year.
many MLC's take longer...its a tought ride . we are there to support you with love, info an an occasional 2 x 4.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest