Is there anyone out there that can explain how a WAW can change how she feels when she was willing to leave in the first place? It doesn't seem possible that someone can see things differently and again have loving feelings for their LBS.
I can't explain anything, but I have seen instances when my W has expressed remorse and wanted our relationship to be different (she goes between never wanting to see me again and wanting to 'take it slow'). You have to remember that a WAW is someone who is essentially wanting to live a fantasy. At some point they will crash, and have to reenter the real world. Once they lose OM, or things start to fall apart because they're not realistic, that's when they really start to think about us again.
You just have to be patient. You can change what she's doing, or how she feels. There might be one day when whoever else she's using for support isn't there for her anymore, or doesn't actually follow through on being there for her, and she knows that you are there.
I'm sure none of us want to be with our WAW because OM discards them - We'd all want our W's to run back to us with open arms, but that's just not going to happen.
