oh no,hope you feel better red, sorry to hear that!
How sad, about your mom. It is very sad that older generations where not taught to talk things out, that bedroom issues were tabu and people kept it under wraps. And yes, prob your dad is set in his ways and would be hard to make a shart 180, I do hope your mom for her sake sees some T , 40 yrs is a long time.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
