Is there anyone out there that can explain how a WAW can change how she feels when she was willing to leave in the first place? It doesn't seem possible that someone can see things differently and again have loving feelings for their LBS.

I just don't see when there has been so much hurt that the WAW can find it in themselves to try again. My W is adamant that our M is over and she has shown that she doesn't care about me as a partner. It is so easy WHEN THEY HAVE SOMEONE ELSE to fall back on and then the LBS becomes the "evil one" and is blamed for the WAS's life not turning out the way they pictured it.


Me: 41
W: 40
D5, S4
Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007
Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007