chicki, My H tells me I'm beautiful and sexy and an incredibly wonderful woman, etc. a lot now.
It's nice to hear.
It's hard when he tells me that one day and then asks what we're going to do with the kids for Christmas and t-giving the next day as I just want all this to be over and us to be back to normal.
I goofed today. We were talking about T-giving and I said "You'll end up getting them for t-giving even if your mom does work because your dad will cook and you'll have dinner when she gets home which just sucks!"
He got offended, but he thought I was talking about his dad cooking sucked. LOL!
I explained, "No I don't think it sucks that your dad cooks. I just think this whole situation sucks. It sucks that we even have to make these decisions. It sucks that things have to be like this. It sucks that we both can't spend t-giving with our kids. It just sucks!"
He got quiet and didn't say much after that.
Oh well. Sometimes things just need to be said.
BFM
There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you. David Burns, Intimate Connections
