Originally Posted By: CaseyMooCow
Quote:
oldtimer
You still seem so porous when it comes to H. You are doing things you don't want to do. It is sapping your energy.

Hey OT,

Would you mind waxing eloquent on your above quote? I think this is a problem for me also.

Tar


I can't speak for what OT meant, but when I read that I thought about the "Why Your Life Sucks" principle, "You give your power away." Some specifics on that concept from the book:

*You make someone or something outside of you more important than what is inside you.
*You put people on a pedestal.
*You imitate instead of create.
*You don't listen to your intuition. (Feelings are our guidance system...use them!)
*You let others choose for you.
*You think your destiny depends on something outside you.
*The root of authority is authenticity.
*You settle for less than you want or need.

SD


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!