care, I did that upon recommendation from a friend of mine. I'm not making the call for him. he already has another name thru ow (her mediator for her divorce). what I don't want is for him to assume he gets to make all the choices. that, and if this is going to happen, I'd like someone who was recommended to me, that I know people who have had good experiences with.
I will not do his work for him. he needs to make the calls, set up the appts, etc.
so that is why. its something my friend thought would be beneficial for me in the long run. and its something that still keeps the ball in his court.
and there is where I wash my hands.
had a good w/o at the gym, did my ab tape, am getting back to my life. I'm back to making my list of things I like to do. things that I want to learn, things that I want to accomplish, things that I want to do and want to make sure I don't stop doing because H isn't here. things that I can still love, even though there is a part of me that wants to deny it because they are things he doesn't like now, or ridicules, or whatever.
back to working on me.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
