[/quote]I sent a simple text telling him I know there is still contact. He crossed my line and I want nothing to do with him. They both are disgusting. [quote]
You did tell him what was wrong and he knows why you are distant. He also forwarded a text to you that he sent OW telling her he wasn't going to contact her anymore. That was after he told you that he wasn't contacting her. You could answer his text's sometimes but don't answer all of them and don't initiate as it would be pursuing.
Play hard to get so to speak give him bites then wait for him to take the bait.That is the best way to explain it. Guys want what they can't have. I would also check if it were me to see if he is still in contact with OW also as he told you he would not be and that is the biggest boundry you have right now. But that is up to you.
This is not going to be over with in a day or two. It takes a long time for things to get better or to find out that it won't work. You have to decide if you want to and how long your willing to work at it.
J
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
