Same here Chicki,
Saturday he was texting me all night while he was with her. Never happened before. I even got an "I luv u" text out of the blue.

This the day after he told me his texts were being checked by her and he had to be careful about it.

I think he was going outside to text - or to the bathroom.

A part of me so wants her to discover, but I know it would only be a matter of time before they get back together again.

That's what happened last time. I know he has to be ready to give her up.

A blow up between them resulting in him coming home would just end badly for me again so I continue trying to be patient.

BFM

There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you.
David Burns, Intimate Connections