BFM,

I get what you mean as far as the increase in communication.

Before H would alwasy be on Ow's timeclock and if he were running behind on his visits ..she was blowing up his cell.

The last few months have been w/ H in less of a hurry to RUSH back to her. If the kids are put to bed before he leaves..he lingers on and we talk sometimes for an hour or so...

He would say..dont be surprised if I come back all of a sudden...or it was good to see you (after hes been away on btrips)...or I miss your cooking, can you belive that?<<<He's a better cook than I>> Or other times how he misses objects<<my H has never been the romantic type..he has no romantic bone in his body>>> OH ..but how the compliments are all of a sudden coming out...he hugged me the other day and told me several times how beautiful I am.