hell yeah saffie.....ive been sitting here wondering lately if i should ask H to move back out or at least back upstairs.....im very conflicted. Im back on anxiety meds. when they return is not all cut and dry. they are still conflicted. We have not ML since his return. we only 2x after the bomb. my guess is until the cow is completely gone it wont.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest