I am at a stalemate. My H has me utterly confused. Saying on thing one moment, the complete oposite the next. Told him I was done for now. Which I am. Maybe he will get the IC he needs, maybe he won't but its out of my hands.
Hope everyone has some good Halloween plans!
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
Thanks Heim. Seems like so many of us are just at the end of our ropes for the time being.
I have been working on detachment since 6 weekes ago when he said he was "Single and dating" so I guess its just settled in. Going to make sure I have my "ducks back" on and go off into the world.
I will keep checking in with you all. Its funny but I have become so fond of the folks on here. Good friends even. Hopefully we will all make it to meet up one day.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
Crossing fingers. Either will work for me. But if its the end of Feb, you may get to see my twice as I live in Bean town and can show you some of the finer drinking/social establishments we have to offer!
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
Got kid brother to babysit. Originally was going to be $30 and all the snacks & soda he could consume while watching game 3 of the Red Sox. D4 woke up just as I was leaving and was a complete nuissance until 1 AM...he charged me and extra $20 since the deal was she supposed to be asleep. Oh well. It was worth it.
I also got 2nd place in the costume contest at the big party I went to. Needless to say, it evened out the babysitter fee.
Hope everyone else had a good, fun weekend!
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
can show you some of the finer drinking/social establishments we have to offer!
That'd be cool.
What an uncle. Glad you got out.
I'm pretty sure I had a good time. I vaguely remember dancing at one point. Made the booboo of drinking about like I would have at a party a year ago. However, since I haven't been consuming adult beverages nearly as frequently, that was NOT a good idea.
Oofah, actually had a semi-hangover yesterday.
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
Hey I have to give him points...he has never babysat for anyone before this. I think he had to play Barbie & My Little Ponies all night...and I know for a fact he got suckered into watching "The Last Unicorn".
Funny but he didn't say he would never do it again...so maybe I got a regular babysitter on the hook. Like I said, he is unemployed so $20-$40 here and there would be worth the torture
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.