As long as you don't believe her over him it shouldn't be a problem. My H was always very wary about any interaction between OW and me in case OW said anything that would set me off. Actually once she had been rejected I never heard from her again.

saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength