Hey everyone! I've got great news! We have had a major break through. I went up to see if he wanted to have dinner with us. We started talking and kept talking and kept talking about EVERYTHING! He wants to work it out. He knows that the OW is not the answer, yes, we talked about her, thoroughly. No p/a but definitely some inappropriate stuff going on. He is going to call her today in front of me and tell her it's completely over. We are going to start working together on things, everything. He needs to go back to Ca to get his things and talk to his parents about us. We were up talking for hours last night. Tears on both sides. I suspect there will be more talking today. I asked him what he needed from me to feel loved and that I am his friend? We are going to start working on trust, one is that there won't be any more passwords between us, two we are going to C, three while he is gone getting his stuff and helping his dad finish up on the house, we are going to talk on the phone and play games on the game site that he likes.

I am very happy, cautious but determined. We both want things to be better than before and I think we know our mistakes.


LuvMyHusband
Me: 41
H: 43
ch: 3
M: 7+ T: 10+
Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07
Seperated: 9/07
H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008
Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA