I know that right after the bomb....H didn't want to have sex either...that too was too intimate, it only happened a few times in the months that followed....but he made not objections to oral sex...he even seemed to enjoy it more and enjoy the 'power' it gave him....weird. Like I said before, he was experiencing some issues of impotence...even though he's only 36. One day he came home (a while before bomb) with some pills he had ordered on the internet, to prolong his erection (viagra like). I thought this SO WEIRD at the time, because he NEVER suffered in that department and I saw no need for him to NEED that !
Oh well....at times, it just feels like pieces of the puzzle keep falling into place.
What I do wonder however is if the same issues go on to the R with ow, or is he potent and without any erection problems there !?!
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
